March 11, 2024

My oncologist/hematologist is quick and direct: “Everything is clear. No multiple myeloma has been found. You are in remission! I’ll prescribe a maintenance drug. You should have years to live.” 

With that, he disappeared almost as fast as he appeared. Kathy and I sat still for a while. “Praise God!” and then big smiles appeared on our faces as our hearts danced. 

I have “BIG” thank you’s to give! 

FIRST: To God. For one year, through infusions and drugs to the isolation of the stem cell transplant, I was never without God. “Never will I leave you…” God declares. “Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for Thou art with me…” Amen! 

SECOND: To Kathy. Faithful, steadfast, unwavering, helpful, organized, attentive, effective, long suffering—she kept on keeping on! Love poured out over and over again. “A good woman is hard to find, and worth far more than diamonds.” I am blessed beyond measure that the girl who kept avoiding me at the dance became my wife. I am forever grateful! 

THIRD: To Multitudes: My dear family; thousands who prayed for me; card senders; message encouragers; phone callers; gift givers; huggers; caring neighbors; food bringers, errand runners; support group folks…You surrounded me with love and I felt it. Actually, I was engulfed in a rising tide of encouragement that buoyed my spirit! “I thank my God every time I remember you…” 

FOURTH: To Medical Personnel. Doctors; nurses; pharmacists; technicians; office staff; janitors; maintenance folks; food service personnel; allied practitioners and insurance providers focused on my well being and care and did so with excellence. The advancements recently achieved in multiple myeloma care were administered with knowledge and skill. I am amazed! 

As I close, I remember that some did/do not have the outcome I have had. I have a tender heart for you! I am not sure why my journey was near flawless. I am sure that God cares, that Jesus is all comfort and hope and that the Holy Spirit works for the good in all things. I decided with God that no matter what happened on my journey, I was OK because God was there and all was well. I knew heaven was secured in Jesus. I am blessed and ready to go on whatever adventure God has in store for me in the future.