Growing up, productivity was valued and emphasized. The phrase, “Stop lollygagging,” was used when expectations were not met. As a retired adult, I rather enjoy lollygagging! Today was a lollygag day.

We had planned it that way. Because of my multiple myeloma and our uncertainty of how I would respond to extensive travel, we planned some slower paced days on purpose. We slept later and still made the breakfast at the hotel which is part of the room price. It is a very good breakfast with made to order eggs and a wonderful selection of other buffet foods that appeal to worldwide traveler preferences. As we have come to expect, the smartly tailored wait staff is very friendly and prompt.

The morning was spent on the beautiful rooftop spa/lounge/pool area where the views are 360 degrees. With a slight breeze and gorgeous views of the ocean and mountainous jungles, it was a perfect time to sit back, take in the view, breathe deeply and relax. By noon I was ready for a nap which turned out to be almost four hours in length. To be honest, the plane ride to Rio was tough on my body. Recoup has been steady, but slow. I needed today.

The late afternoon was spent along the beach, mainly walking on the beautiful promenade that runs along side Copacabana Beach. Street sellers and beachside bars and restaurants line the way. Many were playing sand volleyball, and musicians sang in Portuguese, the official language of Brazil. Thankfully, the promenade was not overly crowded so we could take it all in and enjoy a leisurely stroll. As evening fell, we found an appealing outdoor restaurant and enjoyed a delightful time eating traditional Brazilian style shrimp and black bean stew with rice (with raisins and ham), home fried pork rinds and steamed spinach. Tasty and not hot spicy. The meal with drinks was about $18.

Tipping is light in Brazil–many do not. We have not found a place to add a tip to a bill and, when asked, are met with stares. However, I do tip anyway in U.S. dollars ($5=25 Brazilian reals). I will not undertip those who serve. I believe we have been extremely blessed to travel, and it is the Godly thing to pass those blessings along. “Obrigado” (thank you in Portugese) is always said graciously accompanied with a firm handshake. Awesome!